Topic: MAHARAJA

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Ather you meanie - stop bullying Raja
Posted 27 Jul 2005

Topic: Omnipotent

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It's a characteristic of Allah, and just one step away from Shirk
Posted 27 Jul 2005

Topic: Dream

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Spain???
Careful she might be an ETTA terroist

Or could be an image of your future wife. Ather I'm going to talk to your sister in law and get you married. Then you can take a honeymoon to Spain
Posted 27 Jul 2005

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HrithikZgirl said:




That's a nice pic of Hrithik, he looks very smart in it. Like a cool jr professor is it from Koi Mil gaya?
Posted 27 Jul 2005

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HrithikZgirl said:

Chandramuki said:

My other future husband...






Exactly how many hubbies do u have?



Zero at the moment
But in future I will probably have many, like Liz Tylor
Posted 27 Jul 2005

Topic: Dil

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You are too sensitive Ather. If someone isn't forgiving you, just forget it and move on. I'm sure they will soften up one day
Posted 27 Jul 2005

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A smile

with a very nice black shalwar kameez
Posted 27 Jul 2005

Topic: Dil

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Exactly you can't hurt someone and then think badly of them (i.e. they have stone hearts etc) when they don't forgive you.
Posted 27 Jul 2005

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Get well very soon sweetie and already I am missing you loads
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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SALL said:

ab iss topic ka matlab samajhne liye
1 month intzar karein kya



that's upto ßã£îçh's family, larki walay fix the wedding date
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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Smooth_daddy said:

Chandramuki said:

Smooth_daddy said:

What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object



Well a decent girl shouldn't be free mixing anyway. If she's so keen on presenting herself as an intelligent person she should be doing intelligent things (like getting a degree/working as a professional/ being a good mother etc) and then her actions would speak for intelligence themself.


Issue here is not free mixing or socializing. It is how someone is viwed (perception) based on the outlook. Modesty, defined and practised by the Prophet and his companions, earns women respect for that they are humans and not objects of pleasure for the lusty eyes of indecent men.

Do you think women who are doing intelligent things their physique are not preyed upon by such filthy gazes?

Do you really think that men would pay attention to their intelligence when their eyes are charmed with the beauty of a girl?


You're stereotyping all men. Not all men are nyphomaniacs, you do get decent men as well. Like I said attraction is natural, but pervting (if univited)is wrong and believe it or not, you can tell when a man is checking you out, snapping at him will embarrass him and he's not likely to do it again.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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SALL said:

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What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object


i didnt say that
wot im saying is,,,, nothing,, nothinnnn,, NOTHING allow a man to have bad intentions toward a woman,,, chahe woh jiss bhi halat mei ho


I think to a certain point it would natural to be attracted to a beautiful women, but unless she's dressed to attract attention, then the man should avert his gaze - and yes unless it's a brothal it's rude to stare at anyone.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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SALL said:

Smooth_daddy said:

What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object


i didnt say that
wot im saying is,,,, nothing,, nothinnnn,, NOTHING allow a man to have bad intentions toward a woman,,, chahe woh jiss bhi halat mei ho


You're right Sall, but we can't control what people think. But I think men are most likely to have lustfull thoughts for a women dressed like Bipasha Basu than a women wearing less (or no) provacative clothing.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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In this project we did in college (about 4 years ago), me and my team asked a group of people (mixed gender) what they thought of a pic of a women in full hijab.

Two of the most outrages replies were:

"She's opperessed"

and

"Beautiful women. Very romantic looking." (this from an elderly white man.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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Smooth_daddy said:

Chandramuki said:

Smooth_daddy said:

What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object



Well a decent girl shouldn't be free mixing anyway. If she's so keen on presenting herself as an intelligent person she should be doing intelligent things (like getting a degree/working as a professional/ being a good mother etc) and then her actions would speak for intelligence themself.


Issue here is not free mixing or socializing. It is how someone is viwed (perception) based on the outlook. Modesty, defined and practised by the Prophet and his companions, earns women respect for that they are humans and not objects of pleasure for the lusty eyes of indecent men.

Do you think women who are doing intelligent things their physique are not preyed upon by such filthy gazes?

Do you really think that men would pay attention to their intelligence when their eyes are charmed with the beauty of a girl?


Yes but for men who have a truely dirty mind how does parda stop them perving? They can just undress with their eyes, and the hijab would just add an element of 'mystery' making them think things like "I wonder how beautiful she is that she has to hide her face."

Back in Pakistan I heard an account of this pervert following a women in full burka home, because he wanted to see what she was hiding under the hijab. He was dissapointed to find an old women
Posted 26 Jul 2005

Topic: Ashes (2005)

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shahrukh khan said:

england will bounce back



Yes they will
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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My other future husband...






Posted 26 Jul 2005

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carlito said:

hey guys, hows it goin? anyone have the adress or contact for the gorgeous models noore bhatti or mherren raheal. need them to launch a new business



There are websites where you can get profiles of models, but you have to be on behalf of an agency and there tends to be a registration fee.

http://www.jurgita.com/
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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Probably getting in trouble for being on the computer when I should be making aata for roti
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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~ ßã£îçh ~ said:

SALL said:

kyunn naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa




hey
ab tabiyat kaisi hai ??



tabiyat bigharh hi lahi hay,,,

Vitamins lain gaey daba tal to hope tay theet ho hi jaen gaey jald hi


Aray you are meant to take vitamins before getting sick! the vitamins boost your immune system up so you are less likely to get ill, and if you do get ill, you recover 70% faster
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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MAHA RAJA said:

Chandramuki said:

Lo Chali Main Apn ßã£îçh Ki Baaraat Le Ke
Lo Chali Main
Na Band Baaja, Na Hi Baaraati, Khushiyon Ki Saugaat Le Ke
Lo Chali Main....



HAMARAY BACHAY KI BARAT JA RAHI HAIN AUR HAMIAN PATA HAI NAHI


Abhi nai! Abhi to rishta pakaa nahi hay.
I am just getting excited thinking about your Bachay's big day

We still need to go to they boy's house and take ßã£îçh's picture to show the boy's parents.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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SALL said:

hmmm,,,,,
so u think men admire a woman's 'intelligence and her inner feelings' if she wears hijab

plz dont mind
par kya me hans sakti hu



Men aren't meant to admire a unrealted women's anything.

But you know what? Hijab does make a women look respectful, and although most men want a girlfriend who's a tart they want to marry a women who's never even seen a guy and kept herself hidden from their eyes.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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Smooth_daddy said:

What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object



Well a decent girl shouldn't be free mixing anyway. If she's so keen on presenting herself as an intelligent person she should be doing intelligent things (like getting a degree/working as a professional/ being a good mother etc) and then her actions would speak for intelligence themself.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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friend_16 said:

Chandramuki said:

You can't make an oppinion on someone by the way they look. That's shallow and backward and silly.

I know girls who wear hijab but are sluts and - I know girls who wear western clothes and are very decent.



ur rite chand... but our problem today is people make comments on us on our clothings .. our physical beauty .. nobody looks inside, our inner beauty .. like sall said nobody cares about the HAYA ... esp men .. as if they can do anything they want.. only we galz need to cover ourselves .. wht about men???

still my question remains the same ..


Yes but why do you want strangers to look at you and understand your 'inner' beauty? I think it is important for people to mind their own buisness and not go around looking at others and making oppions about them.

If a girl wears hijab, don't stare at her wondering if she is really Islamic, and if a girl isn't wearing a hijab don't pry on her. The eyes are men's hijab, they are not meant to look at a women's body.

I think because sex education is such a frowned upon topic in Pakistan, people don't develope that sense of 'maturity', i.e. if you see a man/women scantily dressed, you ignore them, you don't get offended.
Posted 26 Jul 2005

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Okay now poerty time. I love John Keats, I've already shared with you some of his poetry and the artists which have painted inspired by his poems.

Here is another Keats poem:


To Sleep

O soft embalmer of the still midnight,
    Shutting, with careful fingers and benign,
Our gloom-pleas'd eyes, embower'd from the light,
    Enshaded in forgetfulness divine:
O soothest Sleep! if so it please thee, close
    In midst of this thine hymn my willing eyes,
Or wait the "Amen," ere thy poppy throws
    Around my bed its lulling charities.
Then save me, or the passed day will shine
Upon my pillow, breeding many woes,--
    Save me from curious Conscience, that still lords
Its strength for darkness, burrowing like a mole;
    Turn the key deftly in the oiled wards,
And seal the hushed Casket of my Soul.
Posted 25 Jul 2005

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tch awww hun I luv you too

this site has some tips for making you feel better, hope they help

http://familydoctor.org/073.xml
Posted 25 Jul 2005

Topic: Smoking

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usnay kya nahi kiya!
Posted 25 Jul 2005

Topic: hmmm baba

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They will come, they are probably shopping for your engagemnet gift
Posted 25 Jul 2005

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~ ßã£îçh ~ said:

nazar nahin laga daina poor frog to    



I will give sadka right now
Posted 25 Jul 2005

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pssst I just went to ßã£îçh's room and heard her singing this song:

"Chocolate - Lime Juice - Ice Cream - Toffeeyan
Pehle Jaise Ab Mere Shauk Hain Kahan
Gudiya - Khilone Meri Saheliyan
Ab Mujhe Lagti Hain Sari Paheliyan
Yeh Kaun - Sa Mod Hai Umra Ka..!"

Obviously she is in a great deal of love, I can't wait to until her shaadi
Posted 25 Jul 2005